Buying a soft mattress? This is your buying guide

Frequently Asked Questions

If you've slept on different mattresses and know you're drawn to a mattress you sink into, you're likely a fan of a soft mattress. This often stems from experience: the way the mattress cradles your body. But does that automatically make a soft mattress the perfect one for you? Not necessarily. The right choice depends on your desire for comfort, the support you need, and any physical issues you have. We're here to help!

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How do you know if your current mattress is too firm?

Do you wake up with sore shoulders, tingling arms, or the feeling of tossing and turning all night? Chances are your mattress is simply too firm. Especially for side sleepers, a too-firm surface can lead to pressure points, poor spinal alignment, and disrupted sleep. Many people only recognize these signs when they sleep better elsewhere—for example, on a hotel bed. This article explains how to recognize the symptoms and why a softer mattress might be the solution to your restless nights.

Interested in a soft mattress ? Find your match in 5 steps!

To the mattress selection test

Interested in a soft mattress ? Find your match in 5 steps!

To the mattress selection test

When do you choose a soft mattress?

If you are still unsure whether to choose a firm or soft mattress, consider the following factors:

Combination weight and length:Proportions matter here. If you both weigh the same but one person is considerably taller, they'll generally be better off with a softer mattress, as less support is needed. Enter your details on our product page and see what we recommend.

Sleeping position:Side sleepers generally benefit from a soft to medium mattress. Stomach sleepers need firmer support. Back sleepers should opt for a medium or firm mattress.

Any physical complaints:Since a softer mattress relieves pressure more easily and can improve blood circulation, a softer mattress is often recommended for physical complaints. It's crucial, however, that a mattress isn't too soft, as this can cause (lower) back pain, as you sink too deeply into the mattress instead of being supported.

Comfort wish:A mattress simply has to be incredibly comfortable! Do the above factors match, and do you also find a soft mattress incredibly comfortable? Then I think we've got a match!

When do you choose a soft mattress?

If you are still unsure whether to choose a firm or soft mattress, consider the following factors:

Combination weight and length:Proportions matter here. If you both weigh the same but one person is considerably taller, they'll generally be better off with a softer mattress, as less support is needed. Enter your details on our product page and see what we recommend.

Sleeping position:Side sleepers generally benefit from a soft to medium mattress. Stomach sleepers need firmer support. Back sleepers should opt for a medium or firm mattress.

Any physical complaints:Since a softer mattress relieves pressure more easily and can improve blood circulation, a softer mattress is often recommended for physical complaints. It's crucial, however, that a mattress isn't too soft, as this can cause (lower) back pain, as you sink too deeply into the mattress instead of being supported.

Comfort wish:A mattress simply has to be incredibly comfortable! Do the above factors match, and do you also find a soft mattress incredibly comfortable? Then I think we've got a match!

What are the advantages of a soft mattress?

Good option for side sleepersIf you prefer to sleep on your side, a soft mattress can be ideal. A perfectly soft mattress gives your shoulders and hips enough room to sink into the mattress, giving you a natural sleeping position and relieving pressure.
Can relieve joint pain:A mattress that's on the softer side (not too soft!) naturally offers better pressure distribution than a firmer one. However, it's important to consider the mattress material. For example, at Ubed, we use BreezeLayers™, which optimally distribute and relieve pressure.
A unique comfort experience:It might sound obvious, but a softer mattress offers a completely different experience than a firmer one. The mattress hugs your body, creating a cozy feeling. Moreover, you can sleep more peacefully on a soft mattress, as your body benefits from improved blood circulation.

What are the advantages of a soft mattress?

Good option for side sleepersIf you prefer to sleep on your side, a soft mattress can be ideal. A perfectly soft mattress gives your shoulders and hips enough room to sink into the mattress, giving you a natural sleeping position and relieving pressure.
Can relieve joint pain:A mattress that's on the softer side (not too soft!) naturally offers better pressure distribution than a firmer one. However, it's important to consider the mattress material. For example, at Ubed, we use BreezeLayers™, which optimally distribute and relieve pressure.
A unique comfort experience:It might sound obvious, but a softer mattress offers a completely different experience than a firmer one. The mattress hugs your body, creating a cozy feeling. Moreover, you can sleep more peacefully on a soft mattress, as your body benefits from improved blood circulation.

Frequently asked questions about soft mattresses

Can you get used to a soft mattress?

You can get used to a soft mattress, provided it supports you properly and the position you sleep in. It depends on your proportions; someone 2 meters tall who weighs 80 kilos can sleep on a softer mattress than someone of the same weight who is, for example, 30 centimeters shorter. If your mattress is too soft, you may experience back problems. People who sleep on their side usually adjust to a soft mattress more quickly.

Can a mattress that is too soft cause back pain?

Yes, that's possible. If your mattress is too soft for your body proportions and sleeping position, your body won't get enough support, which can lead to back pain. Your body sinks too far into the mattress and can't maintain its natural, ergonomic position. Not sure? Feel free to contact us.

What is the best soft mattress?

The best soft mattress for you is one that takes into account your preference for certain comfort levels, your sleeping position, your weight-to-height ratio, and any physical issues. At Ubed, we take this into account, so we provide firmness recommendations based on these factors. Would you rather take a look?contactCome and discuss? That's possible!

Geschreven door Wouter Simons, Matrasexpert

Wouter is oprichter van Ubed en heeft al meer dan 5 jaar ervaring met het ontwikkelen en testen van matrassen met verschillende materialen. Daarnaast geeft hij online en op locatie advies over matraskeuzes.

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